How
to Become Magnetic
Dear
Associate,
Recently,
after delivering various messages, women would come up to
introduce themselves. Men want to shake my hand and shoot
the breeze. There seems to be a lot of positive vibes circulating
in the air.
Last
Friday morning I'm a half-hour late for a meeting. I quietly
entered the room, went through the adjacent kitchen, and Ann
says hello. I reciprocated.
I
make my way to the other side of the room to grab a seat.
When Bertha finished her talk she whipped around one table
and gave me a gratifying smile before she sat down. Again
I reciprocated.
Lately
I've noticed people giving me a lot of love. They're paying
me a little more attention. When I walk into a room it seems
people are more aware of my presence. I'm sure it's not because
of my great smile or dazzling personality.
I'm
starting to enjoy this because it has never been like this
for me. All my life I was afraid of getting noticed. Therefore
I intentionally blended in the background. I never wanted
the spotlight because I believed I didn't have it in me.
So
what am I doing now that's different?
What's
the secret process I'm using?
What
changed for me?
In
a nutshell, it was my beliefs. Yes, that's it. It all begins
with a set of better beliefs.
But
that's not all...
You
see it's not enough to be nice, cordial and professional toward
your peers. You've got to have the goods. The goods can be
anything, but mainly it's what other people are looking for.
And if you can provide that — people will take notice.
If
you have the goods and use them, you'll become that magnetic
person complete strangers will come to like, trust, and respect.
Instantly. You'll have the power to attract people on a level
that will make others want what you have. Really.
Here's
what you can do right now that will make you simply magnetic:
1)
Get better. Jamie is a single mom looking for a husband.
She whines and complains to her co-workers about it. She joined
a big church, but it's just too big to know anyone on an intimate
level.
She's
not good at casual conversation, yet she won't put in the
effort to improve. Her choices become limited because of this.
Getting better at one skill can open up a limitless amount
of doors.
2)
Become proactive. This touches on the universal principle
of sowing and reaping. If you want your business or organization
to thrive, you must circulate. Get involved and participate
with people, movements or associations. When people see the
value you offer, they will want to partner with you. But only
if you become proactive.
Too
often I see people become members of let's say a recreation
center, go there the first week, and never return. Membership
has its rewards, but only if there's actual participation.
3)
Contribute. Your knowledge, ideas and experiences are
your goldmine. People want what's in your goldmine. Give them
a taste of what's in there and leave them in want for more.
Recently
at a business meeting, I contributed an idea for a lady whose
specialty is alternative health care. If you could have seen
the jaw-dropping smiles of approval that were in that room,
you'd understand why they wanted me to contribute more.
When
people begin noticing your goods, your name will circulate.
Strangers will want to meet you. And acquaintances will go
out of their way for a moment of your time. It is one of the
best feelings you will ever experience.
Warm
regards,
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