Sowing
the Seeds
Dear
Associate,
It
was a big moment for me. A day that I'll never forget. It
began with a morning presentation that I wish I had another
crack at.
I
was the middle person in a panel of presenters. We were each
given a fixed amount of time to deliver our speeches. One
by one each of the speakers ahead of me finished their messages.
Now it was my turn.
The
camera began rolling. The people that were supposed to be
there were seated. The energy in the room had a tinge of tensity
and fraught with high expectations. I was ready to rock and
roll.
Unfortunately,
I didn't rock or roll. I didn't even get a good stroll. Twenty
seconds into the message I choked and couldn't get back on
rhythm. If you've never experienced this it's one of
the loneliest feelings in the world. I couldn't continue.
I excused myself in utter embarrassment.
Fortunately,
it was before a home crowd. My combined communications, leadership
and self-development group was über supportive. Many
have been where I've just gone and have felt the same sting.
They were reliving past disappointments with and through me.
But
it gets more interesting...
Because
I was scheduled to give the same message that evening at another
event. This would be for a different crowd. It would really
be demoralizing to choke in front of them.
I
arrived early trying to socialize and shake off that morning.
I ate a light snack and sat still to go over my notes. Wouldn't
you know it? No matter what I did I was still mentally
wrestling with self-doubt.
I
recognized a few familiar faces. People I've seen and met
at other gatherings. They had no idea what happened to me
that morning. They expected to see me rock and roll.
All
of a sudden it was time to begin. Introductions were made.
Handshakes were given. The applause had died down. It was
showtime.
This
time I did much better. I was able to hold it together. This
time I pulled through. What a relief.
My
message contained some emotional content. People were touched
on a deep level. Surprisingly a lot of men approached me afterwards
with kind comments. This event is one abundant moment I will
always treasure.
That
experience seemed to indicate: When you've reached your
most vulnerable moment you're also standing at the
threshold of your greatest blessings.
Which
reminds me of a classic story about a sower who went forth
to sow seed:
Some
seed fell by the way side and the birds got them. Some fell
upon stony ground and without roots, they dried up in the
sun. Some fell among the thorns and were choked by the thorns.
But some fell on good ground and became fruitful.
The
principle I got from this story is: The sower continued sowing.
He didn't stop because some seed had perished. He knew if
he gave up he would not have any harvest.
For
me that means pressing on. Stay the course. And not allow
any setbacks to compromise the abundant harvest.
Life
offers no lack of opportunity. It allows everyone a chance
to make progress. It greatly rewards those who overcome their
obstacles. This is probably the simplest success formula you
can always bank on.
Warm
regards,
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