Do
Bad Things Come in Threes?
Dear
Associate,
A
close colleague received three parking violations in a single
month. He finds it strange that he hasn't received any more
tickets since then. Although that's good news for him, it
leads me to ask, "Do bad things come in threes?"
You've
probably heard that question before. Then you hear it repeated
among sane, rational and intelligent people. And then you
won't hear it again for a very long time.
So
what's the answer?
Are
there unseen forces out there working against your will to
render you harm? Do you suspect an invisible entity scheming
to sabotage you in some manner? Or is this a mystery invented
by know-nothings trying to explain their string of bad luck?
"I
just went through three bad breakups in a row."
"My
car's been in the shop three times for the same problem."
"I'm
recovering from my third illness this season."
Give
me a break. I don't believe walking underneath a ladder, breaking
a mirror, or crossing a black cat is bad luck. And I don't
believe bad things happen in sets of threes.
Then
again, what happened to me recently made me question my own
beliefs...
It
began when the City of San Diego belted me for business taxes
I never heard of going back three years. Their Tax Department's
boilerplate response was that my tax person should have told
me about this. How could my tax preparer know since he lives
550 miles away? And do you know what was the kicker? The late
fees were higher than the actual taxes.
Then
HSBC stuck me with a late fee and finance charge when my credit
card payment posted one day after the due date. It was the
first time I've ever been late in thirteen years. Though I
wondered why my payment posted late since it should have only
taken one day to remit through snail mail given an eight-day
head start.
And
finally a collection agency contacted me about a mobile phone
bill they said I owed because someone else opened an account
using my identity back in 2006. They threatened to report
this to Experian, Equifax and TransUnion if I didn't make
an immediate payment. I told the collection agency rep I'm
a victim of Identity Theft and am not the guilty party. But
the rep said that I was the responsible party and needed to
pay up.
It's
peculiar that these three incidents appeared one after another.
They're related because they all involved making a payment.
I was trapped, strapped and slapped by the money moochers.
But
I did find one silver lining...
While
tackling these three obstacles I received a fourth surprise.
I missed the chance to pay my Bank of America credit card
balance prior to the due date. Their computers quickly posted
a late fee and finance charge. Absolutely no grace period
whatsoever.
I've
discovered and am happy to report that bad things do not ONLY
come in threes. They seem to manifest as often as they want
and when you least expect. The answer is not to look at them
as more problems, but as opportunities to master new skills.
And once mastered, you become a hi-speed go-to person.
Warm
regards,
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